Something funny...

My OM, or should I say ex-OM? just broke up with me via msn... Incredible! He's such a coward... anyway. He said he didnt have time for me, and that it's not fair. I cried really hard, but now I have to move on. As I said... love hurts, to be in love hurts. I just think it's part of life.
Romina

oh I'm so sorry!!
How immature. The last time I was broken up with when the guy just stopped calling. He left a bunch of stuff I had left with him in a box on my driveway while I was at work and litterally dropped off the face of the earth. He quit his job and moved!! It was a little excessive, we had only dated about a month and it wasn't that serious.

how old is he?
how old are you?

it is cowardly to break up that way and to be honest your better off without him if he can't be a grown up.

Yes, he's very inmature. I dont want to see him again. Its going to be difficult because I study photography near his office, just a couple of blocks.
Im 21, and He's 40. I just can't believe its over.

I'm so sorry to hear that. ((((((HUGS))))))

And gosh, what a jerk to break up with you over IM!!!!!!!!

:mad:

I bet you know his schedule.... just avoid being around when he would be outside...


it's sad really. and i'm sorry your hurting....

I will tell you that people that CARE about YOU can manage to make time for you.

I have a friend who when she was dating a man who worked night shift he would leave his house half an hour early EVERY NIGHT so he could stop by her house EVERY NIGHT and give her 15 minutes of his time..... FACE TO FACE... cause he loved her and cared about her needs.

this guy only cares about himself... and you no longer fufill his needs...

use this painful time as a chance to grow.... i know it hurts.

you have six weeks to feel crummy then OFF you go to bigger and better things.

Yes, thats what Im going to do Nessa, avoid his schedule. Thanks.
I just found out he's sick again... I knew he has a lump on his throat that it's growing, but now he has another one in his forehead. I wish I was by his side, but he really was a jerk, I just hope he's ok.

Are you sure he's not just pushing you--or people in general--away because he's freaked out about his health issues? :(

Are you sure he's not just pushing you--or people in general--away because he's freaked out about his health issues? :(

I was thinking that too but life is too short to try to make someone like that see otherwise.

I'm sorry... i'm old, i'm cold.... move on... find someone who can deal who's not sick...


you have to take care of yourself before you can fix others.


even moms on the airplane have to put the air mask on themselves first.

I was thinking that too but life is too short to try to make someone like that see otherwise.

I'm sorry... i'm old, i'm cold.... move on... find someone who can deal who's not sick...


you have to take care of yourself before you can fix others.


even moms on the airplane have to put the air mask on themselves first.

Yes Emzak, I found out he broke up with me because of his medical condition. I feel awful, for me and for him. Nessa, I know i have to move on but it's difficult when you are in love even if he's sick or not...

Hi Romina - how long were you together? His illness must really be making your break up hard and confusing. :(

I found out he broke up with me because of his medical condition.
Did he admit this to you? Is he feeling ashamed of his conditions, or does he feel like he doesn't want to burden you?

Was he a jerk aside from breaking up with you via IM? I mean, during your relationship?

((((hugs)))) for now.

He doesn't feel ashamed but he tries to minimize it even though he knows what he has it's serious.
We dated for 4 months and then we were together for almost 6 months and he was very sweet and caring with me, very mature, with good values, I guess that's what made me fall in love so quickly. Right now I just need some time for myself, but everything I do or everywhere I go reminds me of him. It's hard.

Romina, I can kinda see why he did it over IM. It seems to me like he really does care about you and wants to be with you, but doesn't think it's fair to you because of his illnesss. It was probably hard for him to break it off with you, and through IM was probably the easiest way to do it without revealing how hard it is for him.

All around, the situation sucks. ((((hugs)))) There's no easy way to deal with this....hang in there girl.

Romina, I can kinda see why he did it over IM. It seems to me like he really does care about you and wants to be with you, but doesn't think it's fair to you because of his illnesss. It was probably hard for him to break it off with you, and through IM was probably the easiest way to do it without revealing how hard it is for him.

My thoughts exactly. At first, I thought it was just a careless thing to do, but when you explained the situation, it changes things. It must be really hard for him.

Right now I just need some time for myself, but everything I do or everywhere I go reminds me of him. It's hard.

I totally understand this (I am feeling the same way), so do just that. Take some time for yourself - be good to yourself - it will help you figure things out.

(((hugs)))