Masturbation...

Is cool.

Rosie wants to chime in:eek: , but sign language does not do well here. :rolleyes:

works for me


do you prefer manual or toys?

I really don't get guys using toys.

well neither do I but i wanted to be fair and ask just in case...

You've got to switch it up...sometimes toys...sometimes manual. That way your body doesn't get too used to one way. *grin*

Nadine.

I prefer the shower massage. :eek: It's like... accomplishing a bunch of things at the same time. Oh how I like to multi-task. ROFLAO.

~phos

gawd help me I love my shower massage... i love to be squeaky clean...


and i look the other way when girl child takes a 45 minute shower... but her dad cringes....

I like my shower massage...but I hardly ever have time in the mornings to be playing...

Not to mention the standing up vs. sitting down problem. *grin*

Nadine.

let me tell you about the ass shaped hole in my shower when my butt went through the wall.....

let me tell you about the ass shaped hole in my shower when my butt went through the wall.....

LOLOL...now that sounds like a funny "ass" story!!!

Speaking of showers...I definately need to get my butt into mine to get ready for school!!!

Nadine.

Shower massagers hurt my balls.

Shower massagers hurt my balls.


then your not doing it right


my hubby loves it snugged up under his....on pulse.

Well it's a real serious sitiuation that needs to be taken in hand, dealt with until the issue is resolved and put to bed.

ROFLAO!

Yeah... ahhh... maybe Some Dude needs a shower massage WITH a water saver. Could just be ya got too good a' water pressure there. ;) We're on well water.. couldn't get "good" water pressure if you tried. So, no prollemo there.

~phos

I actually just tried it for the first time last week...I don't know why, but I just felt weird about it, so...I haven't done it since. Boyfriend is into it, but...I dunno. :o

I do it maually all the time...I cant have an orgasm while having sex so I have always had to do it myself during sex.

I have wanted to get a vibrator for a while now but my hand works fine for me so I can wait a little longer :p

I actually just tried it for the first time last week...I don't know why, but I just felt weird about it, so...I haven't done it since. Boyfriend is into it, but...I dunno. :o

Wait a minute. You just masturbated for the first time ever?

Did they just take the mittens off or somethin?

I was 23 the first time I masturbated. :eek: Catholic raised ~ never baptised. I am so, so, so not a Catholic, but DAMN it was hard getting past that upbringing. ;) LOL

I should add, it was also the first time I orgasmed. EVER.

First time WITH a guy... 32. His name is Litical. :o

~phos

is it weird that i have been masterbating since I was, like, 5 years old?

and didn't have sex til I was 21?

is it weird that i have been masterbating since I was, like, 5 years old?

Gives "playing with dolls" a new meaning.

is it weird that i have been masterbating since I was, like, 5 years old?

and didn't have sex til I was 21?

I wasnt that young.....I think I was 10 or 11 when I first started masturbating.:rolleyes:

ROFLMFAO at this whole thread!!!!!!

Ohhh I needed a good laugh today!

is it weird that i have been masterbating since I was, like, 5 years old?

Nope, lots of kids start that young.



The shower massage is my best friend these days. When I moved into this apartment, it had a brand new hand held massager and I actually considered removing it so I wouldn't end up taking those hour long showers.

I wonder though, all that water can't be good for us women.

Wow...good to know I wasn't the only one who started young!!!

I started when I was about 13ish. Didn't have sex till I was 21 though.

MAN was that hard to wait for!!! *grin*

Nadine.

"Masterbation is sex with someone I love!"
~~ Woody Allen

I will never forget, I was 19 and it was my first day as an afterschool couneslor at an elementary school. I was in charge of 20 kindergarteners.
Well I'm taking role and I look up and there are 3 girls (in different areas of the classroom) "playing with themselves" under thier dresses!!
I was SHOCKED! but nobody seemed to notice.

i used to do it in the tub... with the faucet running on me.. till it tickled... I had no idea that was an orgasm.... I was VERY young.... 6 or 7...



but i had sex young.... very young....

Well.. like I said earlier... *looks down at girls* I'm 34 and just hitting puberty now. ROFLAO. Makes sense then, right? :eek:

*giggles and wanders off*
~phos

Had my first orgasm at 16...it was wierd...no stimulation or anything...I was just watching a really sexy scene in a movie and POW! It was the most amazing feeling and I had no idea what the hell had happened. I felt so ashamed. (Yeah, I know the Catholic thing)

Never had an orgasm since without manual stimulation, either from myself or my partner.

Just make sure noone's around if you don't want to get caught.....Ahhhhhhhhh:p

I've heard of this happening and I think it's freaking amazing . . . wish I could just sit around and have orgasms. :D

Had my first orgasm at 16...it was wierd...no stimulation or anything...I

Ah! Merovingian struck huh. Had you just taken a bite of something? :eek:

I'm in a LDR so it's a basic need for me...

*blushin*...ok, nuff said! :o

See this is what I don't get. I was raised Jewish, so there shouldn't be any sex= sin feelings. However my Mother had been raised Southern Baptist (in Tenn) so when it came to sex it was all about hellfire and brimstone. I guess I started masterbating at 12 or so, but didn't really know what it was. I bought my first vibrator at 23 (I had to buy a Hello Kitty Vibrator to prove that they exisited!!) and my Rabbit is my new bestfriend. That being said, I honestly don't like to masterbate, I get all the ashamed, sin, bad vibe feelings when it's done. Just my upbringing I guess, but if my man is there than it's all a part of sex and that's FUN!!!!!!!

I've heard of this happening and I think it's freaking amazing . . . wish I could just sit around and have orgasms. :D


I wish that happened to me, too!
I don't masturbate- I've honestly never had the desire. Don't get me wrong, things are ALL good when a guy is around and we're together, but I just can't be "turned on".

Well ladies, I guess I should try to learn, huh? But does anyone have any tips? I live in a college dorm. I am never ever ever alone.

best way to learn now I guess would be with your man. What does he do that you like, ect. let him show you.
though most women like shower massagers, I keep burning myself on mine!

if you wanna learn that's fine... if you don't that's fine too.


sometimes our sex life is mutal masturbation... that can be cool....


no where is it written you have to masturbate....


but then there is that lovely shower massage iss...


oops that reminds me... i'm late for the shower....

This just thread just made me think of the movie Hair and the guys running through central park singing to the richie girls on their horses...

Sodomy
Fellatio
Cunnilingus
Pederasty

Father, why do these words sound so nasty?

Masturbation
Can be fun
Join the holy orgy
Kama Sutra
Everyone!

Pederasty

Don't laugh...but what the heck does this word mean?

Nadine.

Pederasty

Don't laugh...but what the heck does this word mean?

Nadine.
It's like pedophilia.....taking an interest in pre-teen boys.

It's like pedophilia.....taking an interest in pre-teen boys.

AHHHHH....thank you Poll! :D

Nadine.

I once had a really good orgasim during a snowboard slalom race. It was AWESOME!!!

I guess I'm a late bloomer! I'm a recovering Catholic. That explains it!!! I didn't kiss, see a penis, etc before I was 19!!!!!!!!!!

I started masterbating...manually only since I was 18 and my god it's addicting. Anyone else do it daily? Is this normal? I'm in a LDR...so maybe that explains it.
lol
Mary Ann

normal to do it daily or twice a day


the only time it's not normal is when it takes you away from your regular activites like work school or socializing.

I go through phases...

Sometimes I do it everyday...or twice a day...sometimes every other day...and sometimes maybe not for a week or so.

Like right now I'm just not feeling frisky...so i haven't done it in a good while.

No big deal. lol. I'll be back to doing it everyday soon enough. *grin*

Nadine.

two words:


Shower Massage

Twice a day. At least

two words:


Shower Massage

I don't like my shower massage...too hard to do standing up...too cold in the bathtub to do sitting down.

*grin*

I do like my conair massager though...I posted a pic in the sex toys thread.

Nadine.

I have a guy friend who is having trouble...but he doesn't want to masturbate...does anyone know if he doesn't do anything and this problem keeps on going if he's going to be in trouble?

I have a guy friend who is having trouble...but he doesn't want to masturbate...does anyone know if he doesn't do anything and this problem keeps on going if he's going to be in trouble?
What do you mean? He doesn't want to masturbate and he's afraid that is unhealthy?

I don't like my shower massage...too hard to do standing up...too cold in the bathtub to do sitting down.

*grin*

I do like my conair massager though...I posted a pic in the sex toys thread.

Nadine.

how the hell do you think my butt went through the wall?

What do you mean? He doesn't want to masturbate and he's afraid that is unhealthy?

Ok...well he's "turned on" and he's been like this for a couple of days but hasn't done anything about it...he tried taking a cold shower that only made things worse, and he doesn't like to masturbate...I'm just wondering if it starts to hurt, is that a unhealthy sign and what he should do about it? lol...did that clear up things better?

Hmmm why doesn't he like to masturbate? That's sort of unusual. But to answer your question, I don't think it's unhealthy to not masturbate.

No, but that IS where "wet dreams" come from, so if he doesn't take care of himself, he will when he's sleeping at some point or another. :eek:

~phos