Student/Professor love...when is it okay?

hey there

Love can be found anywhere...but it has to be reciprocated. What does he have to say? How does he feel?

Alanna:o

I would never ever place my partner in the same category as my parents. Sorry that's a whole kettle of psychological fish.


a student can crush on a proferssor for as long as he or she likes.

a professor should NOT reciprocate until said professor is no longer the professor of this student.

what you post here seems to me as adoration, admiration, and a crush.


does not sound at all as if he returns said feelings.



oh and "he's not really a professor" pure justification on your part to help make you feel better about what you know is inappropriate.

if YOU knew it was appropriate you wouldn't ask.

I think its a fairly common phenomenon, falling for a teacher. Especially at your age... so this is an age thing. ;) BUT, he's still YOUR teacher, whether or not he's tenure track. He's also a lawyer. I seriously doubt that you're going to get anywhere other than having a "crush" on him, or I would question his ethics.

When you're in the position of being the teacher, you hold an enormous amount of sway over your students. This is why it is considered unethical to date them.

Do I think the age gap itself is the problem? Nope. Just that he's YOUR teacher. He is supposed to connect to you, inspire you, excite your brain and make the subject he's teaching interesting and NOT exploit that. All too often when young students actually EXPERIENCE this, they think its love.

To be completely frank, you would be doing yourself a huge injustice to think this is THE man for you. Your new to college life, you're very young and easily influenced and there are SO many more experiences you can/should have.

Cultivate a friendship with him. Maybe when you're done with college the friendship might blossom, but I really wouldn't hold out any expectations. You'll be surprised how much you DO change over the course of the next couple years. I know I was. :eek:

~phos

My own father is involved with law enforcement, and his belief is that during the semester he is my professor, any relationship would be inappropriate. But once it is over? Who is to say this man is not a good man for me?

Your dad is a very wise man. Don't do anything to pursue this until the semester is over, then if you still feel the same about Mr. Lawyer after May, go for it!

My real question is this: Can love be found with this person. Not 'with my professor', not with an 'older man', but with this person.

Yes. I like Phossy's plan--wait until the semester is over, then try to cultivate a friendship with him. You have to start somewhere, and that's a good place to start. If you're also interested in law, then ask him for advice on law school, different practice specialties, etc.

In terms of how not to come across as a "little girl with a crush", stop drawing attention to your age! :) I noticed in your post that you kept saying stuff like "I'm only 19 but...." Don't do that. You shouldn't feel like you have to apologize for your age or to "prove" that you're mature beyond your years. Just let him get to know YOU--not as his "former student", not as a "younger woman", just you as in THIS PERSON. ;)

I didn't like this particular part:
'I'm not saying I want to F**K my professor like some sleazy grade hunting psycho path skank. I want to know if after the school year is over, is there a chance?! Not to bang him'

That was hopefully implied. In any case, as a college student myself, it's definitely better to wait until the semesters over and see how he feels then. I highly recommend not sharing any feelings until a little time has passed and the semester is over. It sounds like a crush to me- who knows, maybe it will pass? Most professors, if they are good, can be made attractive simply by the fact that they are good teachers. In a teaching forum, their positive points are highlighted. We see all their good qualities, especially their intelligence. The point is, though, that you haven't really gotten to know him as a person. Surely, he's passionate about what he's teaching, but maybe there are other things you should get to know about him before you attempt to get involved with him. Seems like you need a more casual foundation before thinking this is anything other than a crush.

Trust me, I've seen many in your situation. I go to a woman's college, and it gets a little estrogen heavy around here :) You can even start thinking the buildings and grounds workers are kind of cute.

In any case, I wish you luck.

And your last question that you asked about whether there is potential for love with this person- that is a question you can only answer yourself.

It sounds like you already have a clear idea on how to proceed. Your main concern seems to be that he may always view you as his 19-year-old student, and I think by doing what I and some others have suggested (approaching him after the semester is over and talking to him like you would any guy who catches your fancy, trying to bond with him over common interests, not making age an issue, etc.), it will go a long way to help him see you as a bright, mature woman who's interested in him as a person and potential bf.

Leah, I'm not sure now, after reading your second post, what your question is?

You originally asked when is student/prof love ok, but now you've stated "I WOULD NOT PURSUE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM DURING THE CURRENT SEMESTER".

The way I see it.....students and profs are a no-go....just as you have acknowledged. But, picking up after you're no longer his student - I don't see a problem. It's the same as dating any other guy....call him up and meet for coffee, get to know him as a guy and see if you actually like him and vice versa.

About not coming across as young, well, you are young...but you're also an individual...so be yourself and don't make a big deal of the age. You're not defined by it. Good luck! :)

I think I'm just looking for people's support on the fact that, a relationship with a previous professor could work. I think I basically want to hear people who've other experienced a thing like this themself, or someone they know, or whatever and say that it actually worked. It can work.

Yup, I definitely think that a relationship with a former professor CAN work. The most famous professor/student pairing I know of is renowned historian Will Durant and his wife Ariel. You have nothing to worry about on that front. :)

Oooh now I can't wait until May to see what happens with you and Mr. Lawyer! The suspense is gonna kill me. :D

yeah sure it can work. if you both want it.


WHERE does HE stand on this?


the one thing I know about age gap relationships is that they often are lopsidded with one partner wanting it more than the other. Usually the woman.

And of course, the statement; "you are young and easily influenced, you have a lot to experience still!" Man oh man, I don't even know where to begin on responding to that statement. I will simply say, (and I'm sure I'll still receive criticism for saying so but, c'est la vie) you don't have clue of who you're talking to. I know a heck of a lot more about life for a person my age than some people who are in their 40's. Don't begin to think you know my life experiences, you don't know a thing about them, or about the kind of person I have become in spite of them. Judge my story based on the facts.

When you ask for advice, it isn't always going to be what you want to hear. I'm sorry, but you SOUND a helluva lot more IMMATURE than you proclaim to be. I'm not buying it. I was 18 going on 40 once, too. You have a LOT to learn. :rolleyes: And the reason that comment stuck was because SOMEWHERE inside you're WANTING to be something you're not, you recognize a grain of truth. Defensiveness speaks VOLUMES.

Personally, I think a relationship with someone in their 20s and someone in their 40s is NO BIG DEAL. But, personally, I also think relationships ~ even AFTER the fact ~ between one of a professor and a student who met under those circumstances, is rather unethical. If he's an "ethical" lawyer, he will pursue nothing with you ~ and it doesn't even sound like he's remotely interested anyway ~ so why waste your time???

~phos

you know fos, i think we were ALL 18 going on 40


damn i thought i was smart in my 20s. I married at 21... what a joke....


and truthfully Leah... you protest way too much that your mature.


and you don't address where HE stands in this infatuation of yours.

and you don't address where HE stands in this infatuation of yours.

Yes but that's because she won't know until after May when she actually talks to him. :)

the answer to your question is yes



now what dear do you obsess about him for the rest of the sememter and build a rich fantasy life about him?

My dad is an exceptional human being, 100% honest and decent in EVERY way. While he's not supporting me by saying, "Yeah, go for it!", he IS supportive by saying, "it is possible, age gap's aren't really the biggest issue a couple can have, and yes, I do think he's a nice guy."

Your dad sounds really nice! I'm jealous. :)

P.S. Oh and the answer to your question is yes, it can work out despite the age gap and former professor/student relationship.

yes but EMzak aren't you concerned that she FEELS the need to HAVE her DADDY's approval?

yes but EMzak aren't you concerned that she FEELS the need to HAVE her DADDY's approval?

Hmm I didn't get the impression that she was asking her dad for approval--more like a reality check. No?

Personally I would not seek my PARENTS affirmation that a relationship i was interested in was appropriate.

Dang, girls! Settle down 'cause it's only Monday and we've got a looooooooong week ahead! :D

Nessa, I guess I have a soft spot for Leah's sitatuation because I too have experienced much agony and frustration over falling for a teacher. She reminds me of myself 10 years ago. Gosh, now I feel old. :(

Leah, as I'm sure you'll read about in other threads, my relationship with my parents is nothing like yours. It's nice that you are so close to your parents. Sadly, for me, that's just not the case.

And yes, that's my wedding pic with Mr. Computer Programmer. ;)

Leah... you have proved in your utterly immature responses everything I said in my first post. Grow up first. Leave this man alone. It's nothing more than a crush and if he has one iota of sense, he will recognize that as clearly as any adult in their 30s or 40s does. :rolleyes:

The judgemental person here is you, who freaks out and attacks people the second she hears something she doesn't like. You sound way too much like my 10 year old son to be almost 19. :eek:

Don't worry, I won't even be checking back in on your pathetic excuse for a thread. Have a nice life and grow up...
~phos

Hi Leah. Well, I can relate to your situation, and trust me, you don't want to get involved before you're not a student there anymore (or him an educator), but you already know that. However after your semester is over, go for it if you still have a crush on him. The answer to your question is obviously yes, it's not any different from any other people falling in love - but as Emzak said, HE might see you as a 19-year-old student, but an older man doesn't need to have been your professor to see you as that..! He'll either be interested or he won't. There's only one way to find out. Good luck.

I think this thread is meaningles. You're asking us to give you a concrete answer to a hypothetical situtaion. *Could* it work? Yes. And pigs could fly. There's your answer.

Things to consider:
*If he's teaching a class this term, what makes you think he won't teach another one? That's called an Adjunct Proffessor.
*Do you know if he's married, divorced, gay, or seeing someone?
*Do you know anything about him other than he's your professor who's really a lawyer?

That being said, it's *way* too soon to start asking the question "Could it work?" Also, if you're not mature enough to know when someone is interested in you without them havnig to pass you a note, then you're too young to even ask.

Also, I may have the reason why you've gotten a less than popular response to your question.

Firstly, you decieved everyone by titling this thread "Student/Proffessor love...when is it okay?" We answered that question and you got defensive. Which brings me to my second point

You blatently came out and told us what TO consider and what NOT to consider. Hell, why don't you stick your hand up our asses and be the puppet master?

Thirdly, you personally attack a few of our members for simply questioning your life experience, your maturity? That says volumes.

Lastly, don't fucking make dumb ass generalizations about people you don't even know just because they won't blow smoke up your ass to help you sleep at night.

It's a bit humerous that you can't put two and two together. If you got the same response from another board, don't you think YOU MIGHT BE WRONG!

Alanna:D

From Ms. Mature ~ a series of attacks: All from well meaning SOLICITED advice:

"I'm not a mind reader like fos4snt who apparently knows me better than I know myself just by reading an online post. I'm impressed, you should join up with Sylvia Brown."

"Oh, I did forget we have Sylvia Brown's apprentice here. Perhaps she knows what the future holds."

Mmmmm.. very mature.

And there's MORE:

"Wow Ladybugnessa, for a second there I thought you were just some rude, judgemental woman. But now I feel sorry for you. I guess God did not bless you with the kind of parents he blessed me with. Maybe that's why you THOUGHT you were smart when you were in your 20's, when your "knowledge" (on life) actually turned out to be a "joke". As you said: damn i thought i was smart in my 20s."

Oh yes... a very, very, very mature woman, indeed. Who ATTACKS another person for simply asking a question like "how does HE feel about it?"

I will mince no words here... YOU are nothing more than an idiotic TEENAGER who cannot do anything but viciously attack people who answered your question with nothing more than REALITY... and if this man is truly a 40 year old professor he will laugh in your pathetic face the second he gets a GLIMPSE of the truly vicious, immature person you are.

Like I said before. GROW THE FUCK UP.

Damn there are some women I really love on this board...and this thread is a perfect example of why I love them. *grin* (see the two posters above me for example)

Anywho...Time for Nadine's 2 cents.

I was in love with a high school teacher forever. Thankfully for the both of us...he never acted on any of my "smooth" attempts to put the moves on him. *grin* That was inappropriate...but we're still friends to this day.

As for former teachers and can it work....YES. I had a roommate who was dating a former teacher of hers...they had about a 13 year age gap or so...and they were together for a good long time...Might still be as far as I know.


As for your personal situation...I'm not sure what to make of it. Basically the guy doesn't know you exist...other than as a student. If I were you...I'd just try and talk to him after class...try and get to know him a little better...not as anything special...but just so you're not walking around with this idealized view of him...and also so you can better gauge how he might respond to you after the semester is over.

Although...I probably shouldn't say this...but I personally think you're better off leaving Mr. Prof alone and keeping your eyes open for other guys.

Nadine.

well.... I would have responded but phos beat me to it.

I hope you do approach him. and I hope you show him your responses to this thread.


I don't blow sunshine up anyone's ass. it's sort of what got me banned at ANOTHER SITE....


if you don't like my posts because they don't tell you what you want (which btw I did answer you question) you can ignore me. in fact they have an ignore button... why not add all the folks that you disagree with. it gets pretty lonely with only a few around who agree with you. it's your parents job to encourage you to make your own mistakes and learn from them. Parents that coddle and protect their children do them a disservice. Letting a child get hurt and fall flat on their own face, hurts a parent but it's a necessary evil.

sadly defining maturity as only those that make you happy and agree with you will let you down later in life.

i hope your not too disappointed later on.

Wow Ladybugnessa, for a second there I thought you were just some rude, judgemental woman. But now I feel sorry for you. I guess God did not bless you with the kind of parents he blessed me with.

and i hope you still have your mother at 36. i did not.

i'm not judgemental at all but if you would bother to take a look around at anything but your own problem you would see that. the thing is your quite self-absorbed as are most young people. very much like my teen daugther.

This thread is hot.

This thread is hot.

LOL I can always count on you to break the tension. ;)

why would we wanna rip you apart...


we gave you the rope necessary and you hung yourself.


proved our point nicely you did.


thanks for the laugh

hey at 18 i was 5'4 115 pounds too.

just for the fun of it and BECAUSE I CAN..... btw i'm older and I have better insurance.
(and to all the fine young women here.... no offense intended this is strictly personal to leah)

Hey Phoss Hunnie, I thought you weren't coming back to look at my pathetic thread? You must be pretty pathetic yourself.

actually Phos is one of the most amazing awesome women I know. and I know her personally. I know her SO and her children. AND her parents and HIS parents. and her ex and a whole bunch of her life. YOU wish you could be as awesome as she is. She's a tall beautiful drink of water... a bit on the thin side but that's not her fault.

At least dear SHE has a life. YOU have a fantasy. (well you told me to rip you apart I will)

Listen to yourself, it's actually crazy that you are telling someone else to grow up. You're fighting a teenager over the internet.

oh you think this is fighting... yeah... ummm NO.... it's not. but you do need to grow up. it's only those that don't have the ability to defend their position that resort to personal attacks... btw it's defined as this

An Ad Hominem is a general category of fallacies in which a claim or argument is rejected on the basis of some irrelevant fact about the author of or the person presenting the claim or argument.

Please. You are telling an 18 year old to "GROW THE FUCK UP". I hope to god I do not grow up to be like either of the woman who chose to act the way you are acting.

actually since there were more than two the term 'either' is inappropriate.

and you wish you could grow up to be half as awesome as Phos....


Atleast my young age provides somewhat of an excuse for becoming defensive. I hope that this behavior of yours is simply "being tough over the internet" behavior and not what you are truly like in the real world.

are you insinuating that we are defensive? please show me WHERE WE became defensive. because i don't see it.

It's odd that through many of your posts, CLEARLY you are trying to hurt my feelings by saying, "he's obviously not interested at all" or things like that.

actually i don't see that she even cares a flying fig for you. therefore why in the world would she want to hurt your feelings. we don't care about your feelings nor do we care about you. therefore the goal is NOT to hurt your feelings. there goes that teenaged self-absorbtion again. but then most teens think the world revolves around them.

If nothing ever happened with this man, I wouldn't be crushed and hurt and never recover. I found him to be a very good person and very interesting, I don't know him enough to say, " I love him" or "he's the one". However for those who keep saying I don't know anything about him, I know A LOT more than I've posted, I simply find that irrelevant to my point.

well your question was answered a long time ago by all of us with a resounding yes so why to you need to keep coming back and telling us there's more we don't know and YET not share it. hmmmm suspect yes?

I registered to this site simply to state my case and get feedback. That's what I got. But rather than learning about 'Student/Professor' relationships, I found some miserable old hags that just want to knock down some younger girl who's life is a lot more promising than their own.

you got feedback. you didn't like it. and i'm not sure why you think we are miserable. i do understand why you think we are old. at least me. however you should know that Phos is the same age as your professor. and so is my husband.

as for your life being more promising than mine? why do you think that? because my life is pretty good dear. as is Phos.

we are both independent well educated well loved resourceful intelligent women with large circles of friends both online and in person. Neither of us need to indulge in the fantasy of an older man loving us.



I've met some very wonderful people too, and their advice I will cherish. I've received all the support I need, and I will get back to my life now.

so you believe that support ALWAYS is comfortable and happy and sunshiny and smiliy? that it's always what you want to hear?

funny so did i at your age.

What can I say, clearly you miserable old woman have stated your opinion, and no more useful information can come from you.

of course not... you're not willing to be receptive to new ideas or comments you only want what you want and only believe what you believe.



Why don't you examine your own lives.

what part of it would you like me to look at?

1. i own my own home
2. i have two beautiful sons one of whom is at Drexel University on an academic scolarship.
3. I have a loving husband and beautiful step daughter
4. i am self supporting
5. i have a great job with the federal government
6. i am secure enough with myself to not need to belittle others with different ideas than my own.


Are you really happy?

yeah pretty much.
i'd like to lose some weight but it's my own fault i'm fat
i'd like to have a cleaner house but that too is my own fault.

they are my choices to live with way...

yeah I'm very happy.

Do you have a man that will love you forever?

yeah I do!

do YOU? oh yeah NO YOU DON'T.


For some of you that I have "met", the answer to that is clearly, NO. When you're getting your 2nd or 3rd divorce and gaining 50, 60 and 70 pounds, I'll be smiling with every bit of my 5 foot 4, 115 lb. body.

you really think that what matters is how much i weigh? how I look? or how many times i've been married? truthfully dear NONE of those things matter.

at 21 i married. I was thin, i was a stay at home mom in a huge house on 2 acres of land with a husband making a very good living.... big deal.

i'm happier now at nearly 300 pounds in my smaller townhouse that I own with my THIRD husband who thinks I hung the moon and that i'm the best thing in the world. IF I lost weight he's not care. If I gained weight, he'd not care.

i had long hair when he married me. I cut it less than a year after we got married. HE still loves me. I look better with make up on... he prefers me without it. Natural... fat and happy.

IF you base your life on looks....as you age your life is gone. you need to base your life on what's inside and clearly dear what's inside is angry and ugly.



(Did I also mention I'm drop dead gorgeous? Well, I am. BELIEVE ME, the professor has noticed;) )

funny I can't see that. I'm sure those low cut shirts and thigh high skirts show off your assets quite well. trust me if a man wanted a pretty thing on his arm he'd go for you i'm sure. but when he wants substance to entice his mind you won't be his bread and butter.


Now THAT was immature, but I see nothing to live up to here, just a bunch of middle aged children.

why do you see us as children?

The most tragic part is, some of you actually have children! What a wonderful generation that should be.

actually my children are OLDER than you. and better behaved. I raised them pretty well. oh and my son's wouldn't look twice at you, they value something between the ears not what's between the legs.


Nice chattin with y'al : )

ya think



GO A HEAD and RIP ME APART.
You know you wanna;)

so it is a game to you.

you're not well armed

I think Jennifer Connelly is insanely beautiful. If she went around talking like she was I would kick her in the coochie.

glad i spiced things up a bit around here, atleast some good came of this

jennifer connelly wishes she were me, YEAH I actually said that

I thought you were a dumb whore. Now it is fact.

Enjoy your insecurities!!

glad i spiced things up a bit around here, atleast some good came of this

jennifer connelly wishes she were me, YEAH I actually said that

hmmm, maybe. But I bet she is quite fine being rich, famous, and smart.

Oh come now... who doesn't like to see a trainwreck. Not much else going on around here at the moment, other than simply enjoying some really COOL people in the other threads.

And all I can do is laugh my ass off here...

Thank you, Nessa, for stating some very good facts. I especially like the part about me HAVING a life. With a wonderful REAL man who loves me... and happens to be a true example of a "mature" 20 year old. In that he not only talks the talk, but walks the walk.

But.. yeah... BWAHAHHAHAHAHAHAA...
~phos

and Phos don't forget he can install a garbage disposal quite well.

Hey now, let's keep it clean

My girlfriend is 19. If she acted like you leah she wouldn't be my girlfriend. But she wouldn't go lonely cause there is always someone that is dumb enough to put up with someone like you. Most likely because they are as vain and shallow as you are.

If you claim you're mature and no one can see it there is one side that isn't seeing things right. I wonder which side Vegas would favor?

I've been madly in love with my thesis advisor for 6 years!!!!!
And honestly, if he asked me, I may consider dropping Shane like a hot potato!
well no, BUT Shane does know about my affections for Tom.

http://i24.photobucket.com/albums/c22/chikygrl13/100_0174.jpg

what can I say? I have thing dorks!!!

you know having an attraction for someone is one thing

asking if you can have a romance with someone without their prior input is one thing

becomeing defensive and childish in defending your maturity.....priceless




have I told you all about Eric my work boyfriend?


i'm a happily married woman. I adore my husband..... Eric is so seriously on my to-do list it's not funny:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v216/ladybugnessa/eric1_small.jpg

Ewwww...a thing for your thesis advisor...isn't that incestuous???? :p Thinking about mine that way gives me the heebie-geebies!

Ewwww...a thing for your thesis advisor...isn't that incestuous???? :p Thinking about mine that way gives me the heebie-geebies!

see above pic!!!
Tom is such a HONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He's only 9 years older than me and I cat sit for him!
While he's been my advisor for years, more important he's my friend.
He's just one of the sweetest men I know and probably the most HONEST!
(other than my Shane!)
and he's a HONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think he looks kinda like Colin Firth.

Leah,

Please submit a picture of your tits and ass and he (Eric, my work boyfriend-sue cute picture above) will be happy to determine if you can make a relationship work with your professor

He's an expert.


Seriously, he wanted to know if you wanted a roll in the hay or something more serious because basically any guy will be happy to make you cum.

Man, I hope the original poster hasn't made all of you other women hate us young ones.

I see way too much of the "God, I'm so gorgeous!" at my all woman's college and it's insane. It's such a let down, too, when people are that arrogant.

Just wanted to throw in a round of applause for Phos and all you who responded. Cheers.

Man, I hope the original poster hasn't made all of you other women hate us young ones.

I see way too much of the "God, I'm so gorgeous!" at my all woman's college and it's insane. It's such a let down, too, when people are that arrogant.

Just wanted to throw in a round of applause for Phos and all you who responded. Cheers.


oh BB... it has nothing to do with AGE. I love all people of all ages who are intelligent, mature and able to hold their own.

I know older women who do the 'God I'm so gorgeous' thing as much as younger ones.

and MEN too.

it's ugly.

naw i love all people who deserve love.

i get guys online on Yahoo all the time who ask

'do you like younger men' (like their age is what's attractive to me)

and i go

'yeah with ketchup salt and pepper...."

Man, I hope the original poster hasn't made all of you other women hate us young ones.

I see way too much of the "God, I'm so gorgeous!" at my all woman's college and it's insane. It's such a let down, too, when people are that arrogant.

Just wanted to throw in a round of applause for Phos and all you who responded. Cheers.

It has nothing to do with age and everything to do with maturity, of which the OP had a rather limited amount.

I can't stand people who think they're the most gorgeous thing on the planet. It makes beautiful people ugly in my eyes. True beauty is the one that speaks for itself.

hey, I'm a fat chick in the land of supermodels. I think LA has more plastic surgeons per sq. mile than anywhere in the world!!
What I absolutly LOVE is watching all the little 18 year old teeny boppers (or for that matter my students) bitch and moan about their weight. "Oh my God I had a nonfat latte, I feel like such a heifer!!" while eating a bag of pork rinds. (I swear the Atkins diet will kill you!)

Man, I hope the original poster hasn't made all of you other women hate us young ones.

I see way too much of the "God, I'm so gorgeous!" at my all woman's college and it's insane. It's such a let down, too, when people are that arrogant.

Just wanted to throw in a round of applause for Phos and all you who responded. Cheers.

Thank you BB... and definitely a big no to the hating. ;) Age and maturity don't always go hand in hand. ;) I've known 12 year olds who were more mature and responsible than 40 year olds. ((((HUGS))))) to you!
~phos

I am mature for my age I believe and have been told many times.

first sign you clearly are not, a mature person would not state the fact of being mature but would act like one.

Wow, isn't it a relationship support group? Jeeze. This is more like a boxing ring than a support group. Maybe it's all my fault though! I am the immature youngster here. Blame it on the youngins

this is a support group and that is what you get when you are sincere and honest, i have just known this site for a little while but people seem pretty nice,you just got what you were looking for


I found some miserable old hags that just want to knock down some younger girl who's life is a lot more promising than their own

it is so promising that you are spending your time here same as the rest of us poor people w/o lives...just to make it clear, i would say to most of people here ,who are actually young, you are nothing but a child.

I'll be smiling with every bit of my 5 foot 4, 115 lb. body. (Did I also mention I'm drop dead gorgeous? Well, I am. BELIEVE ME, the professor has noticed )
Now THAT was immature, but I see nothing to live up to here, just a bunch of middle aged children.
The most tragic part is, some of you actually have children! What a wonderful generation that should be

now that was funny, considering your parents are so nice and wise which i dont doubt, they had such an unpolite baby girl, what makes you think you have the right to talk about anyone's children?another great proof of how mature you are indeed...

My regards and condolences to the poor unfortunate men who married you hags.

unlike you all these people here have sucessful (sp) relationships,so yours doesnt look as a very fortunate comment.

as for your question, YES relationships between profs and students may work,relationships between children and their teachers dont,now think which one fits you better. :)