Wow......

As a few of you know I've had some troubles and run ins with my G/F's daughters. I just got a message from my G/F's daughter on a high school reunion site. Basically she threatened my life and the life of my G/F. I would be forced to ask "her and what army ? " But I'm not going to reply back. I'm just not sure what to do in this matter. :confused: I've been hoping this whole thing would blow over in time but appearently she is simply growing her fear. :(

Wow...I cant think of anything to say other than I'm really sorry you're having to deal with all of that. :(

how old are her daughters?

I think you and your girlfriend need to sit down and have a serious chat with her children. This is not something to joke about, and probably something that won't go away any time soon.
How involved is their father? and could he have anything to do with it?
And seeking professional help may be a good idea, the kids are obviously having trouble adjusting to not being the only people in Mommy's life.

Yikes!!! Chiky has some great advice there... but I'm also curious as to how old these girls are??
~phos

if the kids are old enough to do time for what she's done (cause death threats are SERIOUS!) than you may want to consider getting a restraining order...

you received a threat... from what i read into your post, a serious one, not the "wish he'd fall off the face of the earth" generic. she threatened to kill you and her mother.
its serious...take steps. does her mother know about this? how old are these kids? i would also get into some type of counseling.

If I remember correctly one of the daughters is 19 and the other is 15. Is that right Mr.Beefy?

Yikes...I'd take it seriously too...you have no idea what teenage girls are capable of.

Nadine.

The daughter that threatened me is 17 and the older is my age 19. Sitting down and chatting is a serious no-no. Last time my G/F and I were even seen together the girls flew off the handle. In fact I was assualted once by the 17 yr old. I'm not sure if any of you were very familiar with my situation ??? I know the girls have seen their father recently after so many years of not seeing him. I have no idea if that has anything to do with it though. Yeah she really threatened me, it wasn't a I wish you were dead kind of deal. I don't think I have anything to worry about, after all she's only 17 and compared to her I could be a GIANT. She must be something like 5'4 ? maybe 170-180 lbs where I'm 6'0 230 lbs and I have fighting experience. When push comes to shove I won't hit her because that would be wrong in my book but I do know how to defend myself without striking a blow. If there is a weapon involved I highly doubt it would be a gun and a kitchen knife is more likely. It seems as if being in college for criminal justice is paying off nicely. :D I have to watch my back for her cousins and such but I know I can handle myself.

Since she has assaulted you already, I would really take the threat seriously. If really determined, a small girl can take down a giant.

I would consider taking some of the advice everyone else has given you. It sounds like the girl is really doing her absolute best to cause you problems.

Mr Beefy....wasn't the last time that she saw yall together....you were in bed together?

Could ya'll try to meet in a public place to talk? Like maybe for dinner? Sometimes it's harder for people to pitch a fit in a public place. Plus then you'd have an added bit of security.

Nadine.

her size is irrelevent.
check the breaks in your car, and test your food for rat poison.

okay the girls need to realize that mom is an adult and capable of making her own decisions.

Yikes. Sorry Mrbeefy...I've had people that don't like me key my car, but I've never had anyone threaten my life....I'm sorry! That sounds like a real rough situation...that probably is going to take a lot to get through....

I'm very mechanically adept, Brakes are not a problem. Testing for food in my rat poison would be just silly. She has no access to my food and I haven't even seen her since like jesique said she caught us in bed. This was at another house BTW not her own home. But meeting her in public ?? nononono none of that is gonna work. Meeting, talking, counseling, anything of that nature is out. Last time was a lucky shot, I was in bed sleeping and nude when she assaulted me AND my G/F, throwing shoes, a basketball and a lamp at us in bed. If I were at least dressed things would have been very different.

You should take those threats very seriously and document everything. Can you print out what she wrote on the website? This is very serious. She's a minor. You are not. She could always level some sort of charges against you. This is a very troubled young lady who could be very dangerous. She could cause you alot of problems that wouldn't even involve laying a hand on you. Her mother needs to deal with this immediately.

Yeah that sounds crazy. Sounds like the daughters have a lot of issues. What's your girlfriend think of all this?

Yikes. I'm sorry you're going through all this. :(

Did you show the threatening message to your gf?

What is her relationship with her daughters like?

Ugh. What a horrible situation.

((((HUGS))))

First off, thanks all of you. I told my G/F about it today and it really upset her. I've really been adament about my G/F telling her daughters the truth about us. I'm going to see my G/F tomorrow, hopefully she confronted her daughter about it. :(

Geesh, that girl has some problems. Sorry you have to go through this. Let us know what happens when you talk to your G/F about it.