$!@%$#!%@#!% STEP DAUGHTERS !!!!

Hi all,
So I got an e-mail today from my G/F's daughter saying that my G/F was with some other man and that I was such a loser for being with her. :mad: I trust my beautiful woman and I know she would never do that to me. I have no idea why she would try to hurt me with such slander. I've been thinking and I hope I see them both again somewhere (my G/F's daughters) so I can confront them. I know that one of them will most likely attack me but I'm not worried about that. I need to get my point across and hopefully even make amends. If only they would chill about this relationship I have with their mother it would be dahm near the most perfect relationship. END RANT :mad:

Hang in there man

People do stupid things when they're angry or threatened. Especially the young 'uns. If you feel in your heart that your girlfriend has done nothing wrong, ignore the email for now. Confront her at a later date. She's obviously crying out for attention and it wouldn't do a whole lot of good to bust her ass verbally now, you're giving her what she wants; an outlet (and, in her mind, the right to freak out on you). Let it go for the time being. Set an example and show her who the bigger person is. Just my opinion. :-)

People do stupid things when they're angry or threatened. Especially the young 'uns. If you feel in your heart that your girlfriend has done nothing wrong, ignore the email for now. Confront her at a later date. She's obviously crying out for attention and it wouldn't do a whole lot of good to bust her ass verbally now, you're giving her what she wants; an outlet (and, in her mind, the right to freak out on you). Let it go for the time being. Set an example and show her who the bigger person is. Just my opinion. :-)

I agree with what GF said completely....

those daughters/that daughter.. just doesn't give up eh? some serious issues, shoulda had more cracks to her ass...
but anyways...just trying to put a wedge between you and mom. i think you are in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. if you respond, she "got ya"...if you ignore, i'm afraid she'll up it a notch.
i really think this is a situation mom needs to handle... what is she doing about it??

That's what I'm wondering...what is mom doing about it?

And I still think yall all need to sit down for dinner in a public place and talk this out. People are less prone to violence when in a public situation.

Nadine.

Why not just forward the email to your gf (without any comment) and see what she does? Ultimately, she's the one who needs to deal with the girls, not you. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Ugh! :(

what emzak said, and then what nadine said.

i think you all need to talk about it in a safe place.

Sucks to have to deal with all that, but hang in there :)

emzak and nadine have it right.

Your g/f is really the one that needs to deal with her daughters. You're kind of in a damned if you do damned if you dont place. Their mother is the one that needs to make it clear that she is with you and they need to deal with it.

It also does seem like a good idea for the four of you to talk about it in a safe place. There are some serious issues, and if you are going to be with your g/f for the long haul the issues need to be resolved somehow.

I agree with the above. I said to let it go for now, but I wasn't factoring her mom in the equation. Her mom really needs to put that girl in her place!

Mom needs to whip the fuck out of that girl!!
See they are doing all of this to you, but what is their mother's take on the situtation? Is she even aware that it's so far out of control?

Sorry haven't been online in a couple days. Yeah I told my G/F about it and she infromed me that she had a big argument with both of her daughters and they are appearently trying to get back at me. She doesn't hit her kids and never has. I believe she should but the younger is only 17 and she once told her mother she would call the police if she did. As far as a safe place goes, there is no safe place. These kids are hardened Reservation kids. If you have to ask what that means go ahead. I dunno I've just let it go and moved on. I have other more important shit to deal with than those little girls' childish shananigans.

Sounds like you're doing the right thing. Good for you!

yeah 17 is a little old to start discipling.
BUT something needs to be done, and Mom needs to do it!!
Mom needs to put her foot down, not you.
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I think you're on the right track too...probably best for you to ignore them and for their mom to do her best to not put up with it. I would think that over time they are going to get bored with trying to antagonize you if they never get anywhere. It kinda sounds like they are trying to make trouble to get some sort of fun or excitement out of it.

Stepdaughters suck. Seriously.

LOL SN!!! :eek: My ex-quasi-step-daughter (my ex-step-son's half sister who spent nearly every other weekend at our house for 5 years)... is now a MOM. :eek: *keels over and faints* 17 years old. :rolleyes:

I had hoped she would do more before that happened... alas.

~phos

Well time to rant again. I missed the annual pow wow this year because of those girls and their bullcrap. I told myself other things like I might see one of my ex's there or I didn't have the money. I'm getting tired of it and I think it's time to start living. I've started telling my friends about who my G/F is and they know who she is through the girls. I'm now on a personal mission to set myself right and end this rift that is causing me so much worry. My blood pressure and sugar has been off from the stress and I've been breaking out in pimples. To top all this off my G/F might be pregnant !!! I dunno but I'm getting word out that I have a wonderful woman and I don't care what anybody has to think about it. I've been meaning to ask my G/F to do the same and start claiming me as her man. I'm tired of those girls and their shyte and it's about time I live for myself. I fear no danger from them I know I can handle any physical reaction to my presence, the hardest part will be getting my G/F to support me. I know we can get these girls to understand or at the very least cool off and let me be if we try.
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I dunno but I'm getting word out that I have a wonderful woman and I don't care what anybody has to think about it. I've been meaning to ask my G/F to do the same and start claiming me as her man.

Good for you, Beefy! We are rooting for you. :)