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I lost my beloved cat on friday

sapphire
08-06-2006, 10:42 PM
My poor Amber was my best friend for the past 8 1/2 years. She licked my face when my parents died, and cuddled close when I cried.

She was an old cat, but she shouldn't have died. She had a cancer in her jaw. She was the most beautiful, petite, tuxedo cat, with a delicate face, delicate paws, and the most wonderful purr in the world.

For 2 months I tried to save her. I fed her with a dropper, and gave her supplements. I went to the store 3, 4, 5 times a day trying to find a food she wanted to eat.

And I still lost her. She probably wouldn't have lived too much longer anyway, without the cancer. But at least my memories right now wouldn't be of her poor, swollen face and tongue hanging out.

Why did my cat suffer like this? Apparently, the only identifiable proximate cause of feline oral cancers is exposure to 'household tobacco smoke'. I have never smoked a day in my life. Unfortunately, I got Amber when she was 8 years old, from my ex-step-daughter. She and her husband and her boyfriends all smoked, inside.

Please, even if you refuse to quit smoking, don't make your poor animals suffer. YOU have the choice, and if you get sick from smoking, its your own damn fault. YOUR PETS HAVE NO CHOICE. Take it outside.

Trust me, you don't want to go thru what Amber and I went through for the past 2 months. For the sake of those who can't escape your noxious fumes.

Crackerjack
08-07-2006, 01:19 AM
I am truly sorry you lost Amber. I can understand and relate to the special care you provided for those two months and also how she cared for you when you were going through tough times. What special companions the two of you were for each other.

Over a year ago I lost my boy, Todd, also a tuxedo cat. He had been with me for 24 years. There will never be another like him. I know you must feel the same way about Amber.

christina923
08-07-2006, 04:24 AM
i'm sorry...

chikygrl13
08-07-2006, 04:26 AM
I don't know what I would do without my Brigid!!!
I'm so SORRY for your loss!!!

fos4snt
08-07-2006, 06:36 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this. My condolences for your loss. :( Our furry friends sure do have a way of making themselves family, and their losses are deeply heartfelt.

~phos

Emzak
08-07-2006, 09:23 AM
Sapphire, I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

((((((HUGS))))))

Goldfire
08-07-2006, 09:54 AM
I'm so sorry! Losing a pet is extremely hard. Hang in there!

jesique
08-07-2006, 10:09 AM
I am so sorry to hear about your cat Amber.

((((HUG))))

Nadine.

Nafadda
08-07-2006, 10:29 AM
sorry about your kitty.I'm sure she had a great life while you had her to be loved so much....so many animals never get to know what that feels like...she was one of the lucky ones to be so well loved and taken care of.it hurst when they go,but they do give us so much pleasure while they are with us.

Crysania
08-08-2006, 10:16 AM
Awww...*hugs* Losing a friend like that is the hardest thing anyone can go through. She's waiting on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge for you. You'll see her again someday without the cancer and happy and playful and young!

~Crysania

Nasmah
08-08-2006, 12:05 PM
i am sorry for your loss, but you did what was in your hands, and gave her the best life you could.

((hugs))

Annie
08-08-2006, 12:32 PM
I'm sorry to hear you lost Amber. I can also understand what you went through the last 2 months trying to help her. I've been there...sitting on the floor in tears trying to get my girl to eat. You did your best and loved her through it all...and that's the best gift we can give. She'll always be there in your heart.

elle.jay
08-08-2006, 01:55 PM
I've been avoiding this thread simply because I know how it feels. I've lost kitties too and its so hard. I'm very sorry for your loss, Sapphire. It may feel like a hard thing to do, but whenever it happens to my family, we always get a new kitty. It helps during the grieving process, I think.

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