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Missing the man/woman tonight?

buddingbeauty
02-24-2006, 09:41 PM
Are you missing your SO tonight? Me, too! Gripe here. :)

This is the first weekend in a while I've gone without seeing him (and I've been spoiled with that schedule). This week I've had four exams in addition to being tested for anemia,mono and ulcer. After being tested for those three, the health center wanted me to get tested with an Upper GI (which my health insurance does NOT cover), so after having blood drawn twice I was sitting in tears calling my health insurance to find out if this test was necessary. Needless to say, my body is approaching physical exhaustion. I finally finished my last exam today (an advanced mathematics thirty-question test for sixty minutes) and I breathed a big sigh of relief. I then had to go give a presentation in my next class, during which I nearly passed out, gripping the table till my knuckles turned white feeling very dizzy.

My roommate, feeling my sickness, decided I needed to get some fresh air.
She took me to Wendy's so we didn't have to eat some awful fish in the dining hall, but I got so carsick that I laid in the landscaping outside Wendy's. And on top of all this, I'm going without my man :)

In any case, TGIF, right? And spring's on the way :)

Annie
02-24-2006, 11:23 PM
Oh man, that sucks. You've got it rough right now....I hope you feel better soon. Take care of yourself....and take vit C...it's my answer to every ailment!

Yeah, I'm missing my man tonight...and worrying about him. He's travelling in Asia and we talked or emailed almost every day but I haven't heard from him for a week now (other than getting a postcard but that was sent 10 days ago). It's really starting to get to me, because on top of missing him like crazy, I'm also worrying myself sick that something has happened to him and I feel totally helpless. There's nothing I can do but wait. He's travelling alone and I don't even know what country he is in right now. So yeah, I'll be sitting by the phone waiting for it to ring tonight. God, I hope he's ok.

And I was up ALL night last night prepping for a presentation at a conference today...which itself was totally stressful. Ugh, it was a VERY long day. And I was going to apply for a really great job posting that's due by midnight tonight but I am just way too exhausted and stressed to even think about wanting to switch jobs at this point. Oh well...meant to be I guess.

SierraNevada
02-24-2006, 11:53 PM
Awww....ladies...y'all are depressing me...BB...medical tests are the WORST!!!! Half the time they make you feel worse...just to try to figure out how to make you feel better. UGH!

I hope you ladies have a good night...and not feel so sad. Feel free to wax philosophical in chit chat about where you wipe nose boogers! LOL!

SierraNevada
02-25-2006, 12:38 AM
Crackerjack...you just seem like the kindest soul. It really pains me to see a man as glaringly nice as you be so hurt :(

I can't really offer any words of wisdom. The last time I really had my heart broken was in high school. A southern boy named Rusty. But I remembered how bad it hurt.

Maybe going back to your old place is too hard. Maybe listening to the sad songs she liked just makes it worse. Maybe sometimes that's all you can do though. Because you miss her so much. Maybe its not such a bad thing to be reminded. Crackerjack: I really hope your days get better.

OMG and Annie. You are a stronger woman than I because 10 days would have me literally going out of my mind. I've started to lose it after 10 hours before. HUGS to you girl I hope you hear from him soon.

Momma Nessa
02-25-2006, 09:32 AM
well i will be tonite alone... (speak like yoda?)

sorry.... brian is going racing this afternoon (litte cars) and he won't be home till tomororow.


and yeah i guess i will miss him. maybe.

Nasmah
02-25-2006, 10:08 AM
i always miss Eric,but well i will see him in 54 days exactly (i know,it sucks but not long ago it was 61 days! :D )

so meanwhile i am just gonna go shopping cute summer clothes for my trip to Florida...while it is pouring here. :p

buddingbeauty
02-25-2006, 11:04 AM
I'm sad to hear there are a few people who were a bit bummed out last night!
I hope everyone is doing a little better.
I remained horizontal in bed with a few phone calls from the man.
What's keeping me going is our trip to Louisiana next week and knowing I get to see him for days straight.


CJ, you do seem like such a sweet guy. It's always awful to see someone going through heartache. I send you many hugs.
Feel better/cheer up everyone!

Annie
02-25-2006, 02:52 PM
CJ, sorry to hear about that experience....makes that hurt just a little worse when something like that happens.

Well, I just wanted to let everyone know that I finally got an email from him, and as I had hoped, he was trekking in a remote area with no phones or internet. SN, I don't know if I'm all that strong....I've been freaking out inside for the last week or so, but it reached panic proportions last night. He's an experienced traveller so I shouldn't worry, but still....

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