Single Folks

Any single people around, or is it just me? :D

Yes, you are the only single person left on the planet.

:p

There are quite a few of us. Though not all of us are looking..!

Yes, you are the only single person left on the planet.

:p

There are quite a few of us. Though not all of us are looking..!
i thought that you were seeing rick astley??:D

I dumped him for MacGyver.

http://is2.okcupid.com/users/146/438/14743920849213485103/mt1119516094.jpg

Look, he's writing me an environmentally friendly love letter.

I'm single.....well, single but emotionally involved....therefore not available....
Oh, nevermind, it's a long story.... :p :D

I dumped him for MacGyver.

http://is2.okcupid.com/users/146/438/14743920849213485103/mt1119516094.jpg

Look, he's writing me an environmentally friendly love letter.

lol!

I'm single.
and looking...
but then again I'm usually looking!!!

I dumped him for MacGyver.
Is that the story you're telling everyone? We all know the truth:

Our boy Ricky gave you up, let you down, ran around, and deserted you. That's the truth. Ricky... ::shakes head:::eek: :mad: :mad:

He actually only ran around, but I was still disappointed that he broke 25% of his promise. Heck, I'm gonna change my sig.

He actually only ran around, but I was still disappointed that he broke 25% of his promise. Heck, I'm gonna change my sig.

lol! Marianna, you're so cute! :p

marianna~ LOVE the sig!!!
Mac is so COOL!!

He actually only ran around, but I was still disappointed that he broke 25% of his promise. Heck, I'm gonna change my sig.
I hate to be the one to say "i told you so....". Mac isnt reliable either, trust me.:D

LOL!That's a nice new sig!

And well with him home you are saving a lot of money in repairs...as long as you always have chewing gum and stuff like that handy :D

Any single people around, or is it just me? :D
We have lots of single folks on MTaG--they are the SUPER COOL members. :D

We have lots of single folks on MTaG--they are the SUPER COOL members. :D

*Struts her coolness* I'm single, haven't been looking, but something may be happening. Could I get anymore cryptic?:p


Shan

*Struts her coolness* I'm single, haven't been looking, but something may be happening. Could I get anymore cryptic?:p


Shan

*struts her coolness along with Shan*

Something's happening here too but there's a big "waiting to exhale" factor....

But, hey, what's life without risk? :p ;)

*struts her coolness along with Shan*

Something's happening here too but there's a big "waiting to exhale" factor....

But, hey, what's life without risk? :p ;)

Less stressful?:p


Shan

I think I am right there with you two ladies, I know what I want, but I still dont know if he wants to be in a relationship, or just friends with benefits. Kinda nervous to ask.

I think I am right there with you two ladies, I know what I want, but I still dont know if he wants to be in a relationship, or just friends with benefits. Kinda nervous to ask.
Why are you nervous to ask? You have a RIGHT to know. Why would you let a man USE you for sex? Why would you wait around with some guy when you could possibly be meeting much nicer men who are willing to be in a relationship? Hmm?

Less stressful?:p


Shan

Oh sure....but also less interesting..... :p ;) :D

Why are you nervous to ask? You have a RIGHT to know. Why would you let a man USE you for sex? Why would you wait around with some guy when you could possibly be meeting much nicer men who are willing to be in a relationship? Hmm?
Shenandoah, I think your bf genuinely cares about you but Justin does have a point. Eventually, you will need to come to terms with what exactly you want out of this relationship and whether your bf is willing to provide it. But yes, it can be scary to ask him and I would be nervous too! :)

Why are you nervous to ask? You have a RIGHT to know. Why would you let a man USE you for sex? Why would you wait around with some guy when you could possibly be meeting much nicer men who are willing to be in a relationship? Hmm?
Well, I don't feel he is using me for sex, I am the one that generally pounces on him. I guess I am nervous because it's a new relationship and I feel closer to him then I've ever felt to anyone and I don't want to blow it by getting all needy. He knows how I feel, Iv'e told him from the start. He just smiles and says that no one has ever cared for him like I do. It doesn't help that I am a 34 year single mom with 4 kids, he is a 60 year old divorced professor- I don't know that he would want to make a long term commitment at this point in his life, I don't think he forsaw me coming into the picture. He is great with my kids, they like him, but they don't know we are having a relationship it always has to be hidden due to the teacher, student thing. But when we are around total strangers he is very affectionate, extremly romantic. He has asked me to accompany him to London for 2 weeks, I would love to go back with him, this time less the children and fellow students, But I think I am going to have to ask where this is going before I make a desicion to go or not. I don't want to fall for him anymore than I have, and it be one sided. You are right I have a right to know, I don't have much experience dating, I married young. So I feel like a fumbling idiot when it comes to this stuff. I could spend my life with this man without another thought I just wish he would give me a sign of some sort of what he wants the future to be like.

Well, I don't feel he .... like.
So he knows you care about him. BUT, does he ever say "i care a lot about you shen"? You dont want to fall for someone when they just consider your "affair" as a temporary thing. You have to ask him where this going. If he really cares, he won't be offended. Ask him.

If he really cares, he won't be offended.

I have to agree with this.

There is nothing wrong with you saying casually one evening: "Say, where do you see us in 5 years?"

That will allow you to guage his level of commitment without blatantly putting him on the spot.

Can't help to love this forum, you guys are so wonderful and supportive. Regardless of where things go It doesn't matter when you have people to talk to and caring feedback. Thanks to you!!!!!!

Can't help to love this forum, you guys are so wonderful and supportive. Regardless of where things go It doesn't matter when you have people to talk to and caring feedback. Thanks to you!!!!!!
We try. :)