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Meduza
04-06-2007, 12:48 AM
Hi, my name is Aina or Joelstrouble for the guys that knows me from ageless.
I'm from Norway and I'm married to Joel (American). I'm 34 and he is 21.
We have been married for 2 years in July. :love:

Emzak
04-06-2007, 01:17 AM
Hi Aina! I remember you from AL. :)

I can't believe you and Joel have been married for almost two years--it seems like yesterday when you first posted your wedding pics. :eek:

:welcome:

Malani
04-06-2007, 11:17 AM
Welcome :)

Emzak
04-06-2007, 11:46 AM
I love seeing flags from other countries. :D

Nasmah
04-06-2007, 02:43 PM
Hi!

Welcome to MTaG :)

Hope you like it here :love:

Goldfire
04-06-2007, 03:22 PM
Welcome!!!!:D

Sdoah
04-06-2007, 11:17 PM
Aina! :welcome:

This is the lady with the sweetest avatar ever. *sigh* How romantic.:love:



Shan

Meduza
04-07-2007, 12:05 AM
Thanks, Sdoah!:blush:
That reminds me.. i should prolly put one up :D

chikygrl13
04-07-2007, 01:34 AM
hi

Emzak
04-07-2007, 10:39 AM
Yup. I remember that avatar! :D

Love it. :)

jesique
04-07-2007, 12:05 PM
Aina!!!

Glad to see ya over here!! :D I too remember when you were just posting wedding pics....hard to believe it's been so long!!! How awesome. :D

Nadine.

BandT16yrs
04-08-2007, 04:22 PM
:welcome:

Gtsnapper
04-10-2007, 03:52 PM
Hi Aina, it's good to see you over here.

I remember you two got married just before we did. It will be two years for us in September.

Welcome to Mtag :D

fos4snt
04-10-2007, 08:48 PM
You know, I realized it was you, Aina, once you posted your picture. I hadn't even ventured up here into this part of the forum in a while.

GLAD to see you over here. Hope all is well with you and Joel.
~phos

Hapa Honey
04-11-2007, 10:02 AM
Welcome to the board, Aina. I hope you grow to like it just as much as AL.

Meduza
04-11-2007, 06:39 PM
It's nice to see you Fos4snt :D

GTsnapper! Hope you guys are doing well and that married life is treating you just as well as me and Joel :P

Hapa Honey: I'm pretty sure I'm gonna like it as much here as the rest rest of the forums I post on... It was on a forum I got to know Joel btw. but that one was for metal (music) I'm still a member there and on a couple of other metal forums. I'm also a member of a baby forum ('cause we are planning on getting pregnant in a years time. I'm a member of a aqarium forum (I know that is way nerdy) and I used to be the admin of a online game forum (I had to quit cause it was too timeconsuming, I think we had like 6-7000 members).

For the rest of you: Thanks for the warm welcome!!!!

Hapa Honey
04-11-2007, 07:20 PM
^ I met my fiance on a forum too, but I don't post there any more because there is a bad moderator and too many people would jump on us for having more liberal opinions. We still keep in contact with a few friends from there, though.

Ariel
04-11-2007, 11:18 PM
Hello Hello!!!

Its nice to see you over here!!! :)

Gunner
04-12-2007, 12:22 AM
Welcome :welcome:

jt71717
04-12-2007, 01:53 AM
I love seeing flags from other countries. :D
Yes, me too. So colorful. Do you like mine?:D :mtag:

healthnutma
04-12-2007, 10:23 PM
Hi! :hello: :welcome:

I know you! My name is submart on ageless. :D

Emzak
04-13-2007, 03:25 AM
I'm also a member of a baby forum ('cause we are planning on getting pregnant in a years time.

Really? That's great!

You are in good company here. There are quite a few of us who are TTC or planning to in the near future. :)

Meduza
04-13-2007, 05:29 PM
Really? That's great!

You are in good company here. There are quite a few of us who are TTC or planning to in the near future. :)

Yeah, we don't want to wait too long since I'm turning 35 this year.. we would have strted now already if it wasn't for that I have to loose some weight and then have a sergery (brest reduction) first.
It's har loosing the weight though :( I gained like 35 lbs the first year we was married :blush: I blame this totally on Joel though.. cause he loves making food for me...:p

fos4snt
04-14-2007, 05:09 PM
LOL Aina! Litical is the same way, although he is growing impatient with cooking these days... we have TOO much going on planning the wedding for July - HERE. Yikes. But, from what I recollect, you're an unbelievably gorgeous woman, so I doubt a little weight gain bothers Joel too terribly much. ;)

May I ask though... why breast reduction?
~phos

Emzak
04-15-2007, 02:05 AM
May I ask though... why breast reduction?

Yeah. I was wondering the same thing. :confused:

Meduza
04-15-2007, 03:04 AM
Yeah. I was wondering the same thing. :confused:
'Cause they are too big :P
I'm a small girl only 5'2 and I wear a F-cup.:blush:
Number 1 reason for getting it done is that I'm starting to have neck and shoulder pains but I'm also doing it for cosmetic reasons and for getting cloths that fit me. It is really hard to get a hold of a shirt that doesn't make me look like I'm wearing a tent because I have to buy a bigger size than what is really me. :(
Here I'll put picture up of me so you guys guys can see :blush:
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b196/Joelstrouble/Div%20pics/IMAG0008.jpg

Meduza
04-15-2007, 03:10 AM
I doubt a little weight gain bothers Joel too terribly much. ;)
~phos

Nope he doesn't, but I do. I wish did a little though so that loosing the weight would be a little easier :P

Emzak
04-15-2007, 03:11 AM
:eek: :eek: :eek:

They have F cups?

Meduza
04-15-2007, 05:05 AM
they do, but they are hard to get a hold of, so getting one that looks nice and are good is hard. :( I'm dreaming of being normal C, then I will have no problems at all :p

jt71717
04-15-2007, 04:44 PM
'Cause they are too big :P
I'm a small girl only 5'2 and I wear a F-cup.:blush:
Number 1 reason for getting it done is that I'm starting to have neck and shoulder pains but I'm also doing it for cosmetic reasons and for getting cloths that fit me. It is really hard to get a hold of a shirt that doesn't make me look like I'm wearing a tent because I have to buy a bigger size than what is really me. :(
Here I'll put picture up of me so you guys guys can see :blush:

I think you made a smart decision in getting a reduction. People tend to become much more active, people actually look at your face when they talk to you, less pain, can buy normal clothes, make your stomach look better, so many advantages. I've noticed this type of surgery has gotten popular (maybe not with men :-P) in the past several years and I think it's great that women are doing something healthy for themselves. I wouldn't be suprised if you actually started to lose some weight even after the surgery just due to more activeness. Heck, now you could play sports without having pain! Nice pic by the way! Good luck and let us know what happens.:)

fos4snt
04-16-2007, 09:08 PM
That is a nice picture and oddly, for your girls being so big (F?? Sheesh!) they really do not look out of proportion on you. I can totally understand and respect, however, the pain they might cause and support your decision to make a change to improve how you feel about yourself.

But, I'll say it again... you're gorgeous inside and out, Aina. I'm positive you will be afterwards, though, too. ;)
~phos

Goldfire
04-16-2007, 09:18 PM
If your breasts are causing you pain and stress, by all means get a reduction.

You still look really good though, but who needs the pain? Either way, you look great!

Roger
04-16-2007, 11:10 PM
You're just purrrrfect :).... my ex was kinda your built

You need'nt go after those artificial stigmas

Meduza
04-17-2007, 12:27 AM
Thanks for the support guys! :blush:
Yesterday we found a new appartment that we are going to move into the 1 of June and hat will make it easier to stay focused on my diet cause that means that after I'm done with the surgery, Joel and I can start trying for a baby :D I just have to stay active through the pregnancy so that I don't gain all the weight again :P
But where we are moving we will have the forrest right ouside our window and I LOVE taking walks in the forrest... :D

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