So we're out last night...

with Bill's two daughters and his nephew. Bill and his oldest daughter get into a conversation about her ex-roomate. Every single time we go out this same converstation comes up. He gets this big smile on his face...and decides to tell me how much I'd like her...how wonderful she is. She wears short black skirts and fishnets tights. She's a real pill. Blah Blah Blah. Do you have any idea how many times I've heard this? So this time he keeps going because he's drunk. And he starts asking his daughter over and over again to have her call him. Please have her call me. I'd like to see her....

UGH. Why do men do things like this? In front of everyone. Do you know how embarrassed I was and how foolish I felt? UGH!

I'm sorry SN!! People do stupid things under the influence. My boyfriend tried to get out of a moving car once when he was drunk. :rolleyes:

lj

aww Sierra,that aint any good...he should never do that,and as for his daughter,well if she knows what happens,she could be quiet :( do you think she does that on purpose?

if i were you i would talk to your man seriously when he is sober and explain him how bad it makes you feel,not only cause it hurts but cause it is unpolite and rude especially doing it in public.

i am sure he is just kidding and doesnt understand how deep it hurts,if he did he would not do it.

there is not much else i can say,just hope he understands and holds himself back...

~hugs!

Ok....just this once I'll do what I hate....make a sweeping generalization....

Men are such assholes!!!!! :mad:

:D :p ;)

I'm sorry. You stay with him because why????


He disrespects you like that and you accept it?


MY response would be "well clearly you find her so attractive and are so interested in her tht you'd rather pursue a relationship with her--therefore I'm gone".


NOW it may NOT be true at all that it's what he wants... he may just sport a boner for the babe but honey... if it bothers you, AND he knows it, drunk or not he's disrespecting you.

I'm sorry.

SN...you GOTTA tell him to knock that shit off, that you're not gonna put up with it.

trish...now you're getting the hang of it! ;)

I don't think it was his daughters fault. She was actually quite good about it. I don't believe I just said that. She'd tried to shush him..she was like....Dad....geesh!

The real messed up part is I got rid of all my male friends because he's prone to fits of jealously. I had guy friends who I was close to, who I knew before I met him, and have totally stopped hanging out with them because it made him "feel" bad. So we're talkin' about it last night, and I remind him of this fact....trying to get him to realize how much that would hurt him if the sides were reversed that night (especially in front of family)...and he says...I haven't done anything like that (meaning have a jealous blow up) in at least a year and a half he says. Which amazingly coincidentally...is how long its been since I've talked to two of my (now ex) best friends, John and Dan. LOL!

God, guys can be SO fucking dumb! Especially when they are drinking. And Bill drinks WAY TOO much.

Oh...well...he didn't demand that I do it. I just did it because it was the path of least resistance. I was like...hmmm...I could deal with his jealous outburts...or not. I find it funny that he didn't even make the connection. He was saying...well I don't do that anymore, but couldn't rationalize that the reason he doesn't do it anymore, is because I stopped calling my friends back a year and half ago.

Oh SN, I'm sorry about that. But how awful is to give up your friends just to make him happy. I'm not questioning why you did it, but friends are also a support if you need to talk. I just hope everything comes out good for you two :)