ASK MOMMA

ok gang here goes


1. you are the most important person in your life. EVER.

2. NEVER give up friends for lovers... friends are much harder to come by.

3. YOU have to take care of YOU first and love yourself first the rest will fall into place


4. IF you have to WORK HARD at a relationship and it HURTS or upsets you, GET OUT you can do better.

5. NO ONE should disrespect you by

a. hitting you
b. calling you names
c. ignoring you
d. teasing you (in a hostile way)
e. belitting you to yourself or others

6. IF you think he or she watches too much porn, drinks too much, smokes too much eats to much, or expects too much from you sexually he or she does.....

7. TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS....

Excellent post!

Exception #1: When rule #7 conflicts with rule #2. As in, your instincts are telling you this opposite sex friendship ain't on the up and up... :eek: Been there, done that, and have NO regrets tellin' him he had to let THAT particular friend go.

As for same sex friendships, in particular, any SO who tries to get between them should be taken back out and shot. :D
~phos

OH hell yes.. MEN esp are clueless about women's ACTUAL intentions...

i KEPT telling bri about several of his online lady friends... "she wants more than friendship"--- and when he finally told him he was moving in with me and getting married.. THEY BLEW UP AT HIM. he was shocked.


He had a friend at work... I did not trust her. I did not like her. I told him how I felt. I let him make his own choice but she's GONE.

she joined our swing group... till I called her out... now she's really gone.

BITCH!